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random rant

Posted by: till4eva on: December 1, 2009

现实与梦想的差距
 
小时候总以为自己可以长到175
现实生活里,我只长到了157。。数字都对了,但排位错了。
 
小时后总以为,长大了,我会变成女强人,每日会踩着高跟鞋 穿着西装 进出高级办公大楼
现实生活, 每日的高跟鞋踩的我脚痛 穿着西装却拿着比所有人都低的钱
 
长大了些,总以为有一天爱我的人会像电影里一样在我没有expectation下向我求婚
现实中,我问了又问,戒指也看好了,但人家却像个没事人一样 。。。
 
忽然觉的很无奈,到了这里,怎么可能还会有浪漫,,既然都不浪漫了,那还求什么婚?
开个证算了,结什么婚,原本应该是一件很美好浪漫的事情,却变成是我软硬皆施而得来的奖励 。。。
 
以前很看不起老逼着男人结婚的女人,总觉的做女人怎么可以那么没有class?
这几天忽然发现原来我是五十步笑百步 。。。早已没了自己的class却还看轻别人
 
人说 求婚是需要很大的勇气的。。。
 
为什么呢?
 
求婚是给另一半最浪漫的誓言,执子之手,与子携老,多美的誓言!
 
给对方一个承诺到底是需要多大的勇气?
 
也许只是在于想或不想而已。
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4 Responses to "random rant"

linda, 何必这样想呢?? 我明白你的心情,但是这事情还是要顺其自然的好.对于男人来说,结婚是一件要承担很大责任的事. 不要急,他一定会开口的!!!

i agree with jojoseriuosly.. dun get upset about this la..marriage is only a formality.. b4 marry and after marry pp, will be pretty much same right?? just a certificate….after married, u\’ll have even more bigger problems, like looking after parents, have a painful birth, cook n clean like a slave etc etc…see.. more happy being now =)

its the person that matter, not the ceremony. I know you have been waiting for the big day, it will come, like all things, good things happen to those who wait. you two will be together until the end of time, what\’s the rush?

dun get upset… i\’m sure he\’s just preparing and getting ready. IT is a big step for a guy even though we may think it\’s not a big deal. And the best always comes when u\’re least expecting it. so just b happy and before you know it, he\’ll pop the question

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